Students from military families face challenges like moving every few years and having parents deployed. This constant transition can make it difficult for them to settle in, form lasting friendships, and keep up with their schoolwork.  

Junior Kayleigh Cargo understands this well. 

“Every time we move, it’s like I have to start over from scratch, which is really annoying,” Kayleigh said. “I’ve always had to leave so many friends behind, and it is hard trying to adjust to a new place each time. Now I just try to make only two to five friends.” 

For many students, the constant changes create a sense of independence, and they have positive memories of the places they’ve lived. Freshman Sarah Gonzales, who has moved a few times, explains how she feels about the changes. 

“At first, moving so often was kind of hard and stressful,” Sarah said. I always felt like I was starting a new personality every time.”

Sarah now enjoys the change from one place to another.

“I’ve learned lots of good things about every place,” Sarah said. “Plus, I get to meet so many people from all over the world.” 

Though moving frequently is challenging, many military students find that it ultimately helps them build resilience and flexibility.

Sophomore Tristan Gonzalez talks about the academic struggles he faces because of moving. 

“Moving so often means I have to play catch up with my classes,” Tristan said. “Most of the schools I’ve been to teach differently, or they are either ahead or behind on work. This makes it frustrating when I try to keep up with good grades.”